24 Daily Moments to Make Your Parenting Successful (PART 2/2)
In Part 1, we explored simple yet powerful ways to connect with your children throughout the morning and early afternoon. Now, let's focus on the evening, a crucial time for building lasting connections and creating cherished memories. These moments, shared in the quieter part of the day, can have a profound impact.
Share with your children about your day. Take a few minutes to share something interesting or meaningful at work. It opens the door for your children to share their experiences too.
Listen attentively and actively to your children’s sharing with no interruption. Provide advice at the end when needed and asked.
Do shared activities. Engage in activities your children enjoy, whether it's playing sports, going for a walk, or simply spending time together. Encourage them to stick to these routines.
Set up a time and choose a proper channel/program/movie if your children want to watch TV. Sit beside to keep them company. It's an opportunity to connect and discuss what you're watching.
Express gratitude for the dinner and for the person who prepared it. It teaches children to appreciate the effort that goes into meals.
Build a reading ritual. Make reading together a regular part of your routine. It's a wonderful way to bond, nurture their love of reading, and create lasting memories.
Engage in playful activities together, either parallel or interactive, like puzzles, riddles, or a game of hide-and-seek. Laughter and play are essential for building strong relationships.
Encourage your children to find or create their own words of wisdom. Writing them down and displaying them around the house can be a source of inspiration for everyone.
Check if your children have made preparation for the next day, such as clothes, backpacks, and school supplies, ensuring they have everything they need. It reduces stress in the morning and sets up the day for success.
Reflect on the Day. Take a few minutes to talk about the day, highlighting what your children did well and acknowledging any mistakes. Reassure them that they are loved and forgiven.
Help your children establish and maintain healthy bedtime hygiene and routine. Consistency is key.
Bless a relaxing and restorative nigh time. End the day with a relaxing bedtime story, a warm tuck-in, a kiss goodnight, and a heartfelt "I love you." It's the perfect way to end the day and leave them feeling loved and secure.
Through these intentional moments, you're planting seeds of happiness in your children's hearts. Nurture them with love, patience, and consistency, and watch them blossom into confident, happy individuals. Parenting is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride!
Jing Huang
Registered Social Worker, Master of Social Work in Clinical Specialization